OK Mom, I am here to help.
Print out a half dozen of these notes and place them around the house. You know, on hubby's pillow, taped to the mirror in the bathroom, on the fridge, in the workshop, on the driver's seat etc. Make sure you check the item(s) you want so there is no confusion or angst with the family choosing for you.
Then sit back and relax knowing that this year you will get a gift that will last not just your lifetime but for generations to come. Bring the entire family, multi generations, with pets, pals and props to show off your personality. It's time to make a memory!